I don't pretend to be a "relationship expert" but I have learned a few things that I love to pass along to you.
Grace- Ever hear your spouse say something that isn't quite right on, or how about they are upset about something and they say things they don't really mean? That's where grace comes in from you. Looking over the offense and loving the person for who they are.
Not everything has to be "according to you". Listen to your spouse's point of view, even if you don't totally agree with it and when you do perhaps you will learn something new that you never knew before about the subject or even about your husband or wife.
How about when they forget something? Do you bring it up each time even though it's a minor thing? Remember grace each time and just forget about it and go on with loving him or her. It will bring much more harmony into your relationship. Harmony in your relationship will allow the gates of Wealth and Riches to come open and flow in and through you to others.